8 Steps For Attracting The Life You Want

Throughout our lives, we are all in search for that something or someone. We want the best friends, best career paths and best partner in our lives. Some spend years while others spend a lifetime searching for this without a guarantee that they will ever find completely happiness.

At the end of the day, this is the search for a happy life. However, it’s a lot easier to say than it is to achieve as most of you know by now. Whether you realize it or not, you can attract the life you want with the right mindset, approach and steps. Regardless of personal circumstances, economic climates or power, we all have the ability to create the life we want.

Here are 8 steps for attracting the life you want:

1. Take inventory of your life

Notice what’s working, what needs adjusting and what absolutely needs to go. Look at the way you’ve been living and doing your life. We can’t change anything if we aren’t aware of what needs changing. You have to reflect on your current life and be highly critical before you can make a change for the better.

2. Take No Less than 100% Responsibility for Your Life

A big myth that many people believe is that they deserve a good life. Unfortunately, that’s a poor sense of entitlement if you believe that.  Successful people take full responsibility for the thoughts they think, the images they visualize and the actions they take. They don’t waste their time and energy blaming others and complaining. They evaluate their experiences and decide if they need to change them or not. They face the uncomfortable and take risks in order to create the life they want to live.

3. Learning New Things

When you’re learning new things, your mind is constantly growing. The people, places and things that used to resonate with you may no longer be as appealing or attractive. Once you have grown and experienced a different way of living, you cannot go back to the person you used to be and as a result, you will start attracting new people, places and things. Constantly be willing to grow and expand your mind.

4. Being Mindful

Being mindful of your thoughts, feelings and beliefs allows you to feel less negative, more present, less reactive and far more responsive to life and its challenges. Mindfulness also helps you to determine whether it’s your thoughts, feelings or beliefs that are negatively distorted. If you’re mindful of everything around you, you’ll be far more proactive in achieving the perfect life for yourself.

5. Release All Your Negative Energy

It’s hard to attract the right things into your life when you’re consumed by negative energy and negative thoughts. The vibrational frequency of our energy will pull the equivalent towards us. Like attracts like. If you’re constantly living in a state of negativity, you’ll end up attracting more of that into your life. You have to release all of the negativity from your life initially and then you need to start attracting positive vibes.

6. Purge Jealousies 

Jealousy of another person’s worldly possessions means that you are occupying your mind with an illusion. Just because someone is driving an expensive car does not mean they necessarily have the money or that they are wealthy. Jealousy is a liar, projecting a false narrative that is almost never grounded in the truth. Let go of your jealousies and make room for true happiness. Embrace the simple things and fill yourself with peace.

7. Patch The Energy Leaks & Find Balance

Notice where or with whom you are spending too much time, money or energy and feeling drained. Where can you create more structure and establish better boundaries? Patch the leaking energy and find balance in your life. This is a big key in life!

8. Gratitude

Gratitude helps us feel good, which increases our good vibes and motivates us toward further self-improvement and positive change. Gratitude allows us to celebrate the present while it magnifies positive emotions. Research on emotion shows that positive emotions wear off quickly. Gratitude is the key to living a good life because it makes you appreciate the value of everything that you have in life rather than complaining all that your life is missing.


The life you want will happen only if you take the necessary steps to attract it. Surrounding yourself with positivity will only make your life better. In this post, I shared with you 8 steps for attracting the life you want.

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